Lostwithiel Mum Unable to Cuddle Son After Ex Strangles Her
A mother from Lostwithiel struggles to bond with her son after a violent attack by her jealous ex-partner
Lostwithiel, Cornwall, Domestic Violence, Assault, Jealousy
Lostwithiel: A shocking case has come to light involving a mother who was attacked by her jealous ex. This incident left her unable to cuddle her son for weeks, which is just heartbreaking.
The man, Patrick Lambourne, had a history of violence. He got into a relationship with the woman while she was pregnant with another man’s child. They had a baby together, and he helped raise him, but things took a dark turn.
One day, while she was at her mom’s with her sick son, Lambourne was out drinking. When she tried to stop him from driving drunk, he assaulted her. Later, he got furious when he found out she had a male friend over while he was out watching football.
In a drunken rage, he showed up at her place at 3 AM, demanding to be let in. He pushed her onto the sofa and strangled her, leaving her voice hoarse for days. It was terrifying for her, and she feared for her life.
Thankfully, she and her friend managed to push him out and lock the door. But he lingered outside, causing her even more distress. The court heard how this incident affected her deeply, making her unable to work and leading to homelessness for 18 months.
In her victim impact statement, she expressed how much she missed cuddling her child during that time. It’s just so sad to think about how one person’s actions can ripple out and affect so many lives.
During the court proceedings, Lambourne’s defense tried to downplay his actions, saying it was more about recklessness than intent. But the judge wasn’t having it. He pointed out that Lambourne didn’t show up at 3 AM for a friendly chat.
Ultimately, Lambourne received a suspended sentence and a restraining order. The judge made it clear that his behavior was dangerous, especially since it happened in front of the woman’s child.
This case serves as a reminder of the serious impact of domestic violence and the importance of support for victims. It’s crucial that we continue to raise awareness and help those in need.