Haunted by a Soldier’s Tattoo, I Had to Share His Story
Rob French’s tattoo honors fallen comrades, revealing the deep scars of war.
Rob French, PTSD, Afghanistan, Royal British Legion, Mental Health, Weston Super Mare
Weston Super Mare: Rob French has a tattoo that tells a powerful story. It features seven bright red poppies and silhouettes of seven soldiers. This tattoo is a tribute to his fallen comrades from Afghanistan.
Rob served as a Royal Marine for nine years. His tattoo represents seven colleagues who died in December 2008. The loss still weighs heavily on him. He feels that every day is a day of remembrance.
In a newspaper article, Rob shared his thoughts. He said, “For me and all the other servicemen and women, every single day is Remembrance Day.” This statement reflects his ongoing grief and commitment to remembering his friends.
After reading about Rob, I wanted to learn more. I found him and arranged to meet. He was hesitant but agreed, wanting to focus on raising awareness for the Royal British Legion’s Poppy Appeal.
Rob explained the tragic events that led to the tattoo. His friends were killed in various incidents, including a suicide bombing and attacks during patrols. The guilt he feels is profound, especially for one friend who died shortly after Rob was sent home.
Rob has post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and still struggles with memories of Afghanistan. He experiences night terrors and flashbacks. Despite this, he sought help from a charity called Combat Stress, which has been beneficial.
In 2015, he got the tattoo to honor his friends. It serves as a reminder that they are always with him. Rob is now studying psychology to help others facing similar challenges.
He has two sons and a daughter from his second marriage. Family gives him purpose, and he works hard to support military charities. He was even invited to the Coronation of King Charles III for his efforts in raising awareness about PTSD.
Rob continues to face tough days, especially after losing more comrades. However, his family and work keep him motivated. He hopes his story and the book he wrote, “Six Poppies,” will help others understand the struggles veterans face.
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“Six Poppies” is published by Penguin and available now.