Dear Coleen: My Husband’s Low Sex Drive Makes Me Feel Rejected
A woman feels rejected due to her husband’s low sex drive and seeks advice.
Sex, Relationship, Advice, Self-Esteem, Communication
Scotland: A woman shares her struggles with her husband’s low sex drive. They argue often about sex. She wants it more frequently, but he doesn’t.
When she tries to show affection, he pulls away. This rejection feels horrible for her. She feels humiliated and needy, thinking he has the problem.
In the past, their sex life was good. He was more interested, and it felt natural. But over the last few years, things have changed.
He works long hours, but she also works hard and manages the kids. Her libido hasn’t been affected. Now, she resents him and questions their relationship.
She believes sex is important for a healthy relationship. Once a month isn’t enough for her. She seeks advice on how to handle this situation.
Coleen suggests having a calm conversation about their feelings. There may be underlying reasons for his low libido, like stress or worries about work.
Pressure can be a turn-off, making things worse. She understands how this affects her self-esteem and makes her crave his attention.
Coleen advises focusing on their relationship, not just sex. They should talk about how he feels and be honest with each other.
If they can reconnect, intimacy may follow naturally. Spending quality time together can help rebuild their closeness.